The miniExtensions Form allows users to log in to/look up their Airtable records. You can use any fields you like for this, but if you want to absolutely make sure that the user is authorized to see/edit the Airtable record, you can use phone number or email verification. When these features are enabled, the user will receive a verification code to log in. The generated code will be valid for 15 minutes. You can use either email, or phone number verification, or use the phone number as a fallback for email verification.

Custom Preview Fields and Thumbnails for Linked Records in Form for Airtable
Decide which fields are used to preview linked records on your miniExtensions form, including thumbnails.

